Gift of prayer

Thank you, Shannon.


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 “Christmas magic is silent. You don’t hear it. You feel it. You know it. You remember it." — Kevin Alan Milne



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Oh, Come, All Ye Faithful

Oh, Come, All Ye Faithful | Music Video ft. BYU Vocal Point and BYU Noteworthy - YouTube

O come, O come ye faithful,

O come, O come ye faithful,

O come, let us adore him,

O come all ye faithful,

Joyful and triumphant,

O come ye, O come ye to Bethlehem;

Come and behold him,

Born the King of angels;

O come, let us adore him,

O come, let us adore him,

O Come, let us adore him,

Christ the Lord

Sing, choirs of angels,

Sing in exaltation,

Sing, all ye citizens of heaven above;

Glory to God

Glory In the highest

O Come, let us adore him,

O Come, let us adore him,

O Come, let us adore him,

Christ, the Lord

Yea Lord, we greet thee,

Born this happy morning

Jesus, to thee be all glory giv’n

Son of the father,

Now in flesh appearing,

O Come, let us adore him,

O Come, let us adore him,

O come ye to Christ the Lord.

Come unto Christ, the son of God

Let us adore him Christ the Lord



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Tortellini Soup with Italian Sausage

¾ pound Italian sausage

1 medium onion, chopped

6 cloves garlic, minced

2 cans chicken broth

¾ cup water

1 can diced tomatoes, undrained

1 package refrigerated cheese tortellini

1 6 oz. package fresh spinach coarsely chopped

¾ r. dried basil

¼ t. Pepper

Optional: 1 T crushed red pepper

In large soup pot cook onion, sausage and garlic. Drain. Add remaining ingredients except tortellinis and spinach. Bring to a boil. Add tortellini. Cook for 5 minutes (tortellini is done when it floats to top of water. Add spinach, cook for 3 more minutes.



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Another gift from God is prayer.  Why is it important?  Does it matter? The ancient psalmists knew the power of prayer.

Psalms 4:1 Hear me when I call, O God of my righteousness: thou hast enlarged me when I was in distress; have mercy upon me, and hear my prayer.

To Psalms 3:4 To the LORD I cry aloud, and He answers me from His holy mountain. Selah

Psalms 18:6 In my distress I called upon the LORD; I cried to my God for help. From His temple He heard my voice, and my cry for His help reached His ears.

We matter. He hears us. There is no better time to turn your heart to prayer than this season of love leading up to the celebration of Christ’s birth, of His life, his death and resurrection. Prayer helps the heart and mind to center on what is really important. Christmas is a celebration – a moment of reflection on the greatness of the Father and the Son. What should we pray for? Whatever our heart feels is needed. What can we pray for? Anything. Here’s a few ideas which are right for me, find what’s right for you.

Ask God to “close the doors of hate and open the doors of love” this Christmas (from a prayer by Henry Van Dyke).

Pray for those who are lonely this holiday season—widows, widowers, invalids, the homeless, etc.

Give thanks for the faith of Joseph, who believed the angelic message and provided and cared for Mary and Jesus.



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My Christmas Miracle

Reprint Of A Story By Taylor Caldwell

For many of us, one Christmas stands out from all the others, the one when the meaning of the day shone clearest.

Although I did not guess it, my own truest Christmas began on a rainy spring day in the bleakest year of my life. Recently divorced, I was in my 20's, had no job, and was on my way downtown to go the rounds of the employment offices. I had no umbrella, for my old one had fallen apart, and I could not afford another one. I sat down in the streetcar, and there against the seat was a beautiful silk umbrella with a silver handle inlaid with gold and flecks of bright enamel. I had never seen anything so lovely.

I examined the handle and saw a name engraved among the golden scrolls. The usual procedure would have been to turn in the umbrella to the conductor, but on impulse I decided to take it with me and find the owner myself. I got off the streetcar in a downpour and thankfully opened the umbrella to protect myself. Then I searched a telephone book for the name on the umbrella and found it. I called, and a lady answered.

Yes, she said in surprise, that was her umbrella which her parents, now dead, had given her for a birthday present. But, she added, it had been stolen from her locker at school (she was a teacher) more than a year before. She was so excited that I forgot I was looking for a job and went directly to her small house. She took the umbrella, and her eyes filled with tears.

The teacher wanted to give me a reward, but -- though $20 was all I had in the world - - her happiness at retrieving this special possession was such that to have accepted money would have spoiled something. We talked for a while, and I must have given her my address. I don't remember.

The next six months were wretched. I was able to obtain only temporary employment here and there, for a small salary, though this was what they now call the Roaring Twenties. But I put aside 25 or 50 cents when I could afford it for my little girls Christmas presents. (It took me six months to save $8.) My last job ended the day before Christmas, my $30 rent was soon due, and I had $15 to my name -- which Peggy and I would need for food. She was home from her convent boarding school and was excitedly looking forward to her gifts the next day, which I had already purchased. I had bought her a small tree, and we were going to decorate it that night.

The stormy air was full of the sound of Christmas merriment as I walked from the streetcar to my small apartment. Bells rang and children shouted in the bitter dusk of the evening, and windows were lighted and everyone was running and laughing. But there would be no Christmas for me, I knew, no gifts, no remembrance whatsoever. As I struggled through the snowdrifts, I just about reached the lowest point in my life. Unless a miracle happened I would be homeless in January, foodless, jobless. I had prayed steadily for weeks, and there had been no answer but this coldness and darkness, this harsh air, this abandonment. God and men had completely forgotten me. I felt old as death, and as lonely. What was to become of us?

I looked in my mailbox. There were only bills in it, a sheaf of them, and two white envelopes which I was sure contained more bills. I went up three dusty flights of stairs, and I cried, shivering in my thin coat. But I made myself smile so I could greet my little daughter with a pretense of happiness. She opened the door for me and threw herself in my arms, screaming joyously and demanding that we decorate the tree immediately.

Peggy was not yet six years old, and had been alone all day while I worked. She had set our kitchen table for our evening meal, proudly, and put pans out and the three cans of food which would be our dinner. For some reason, when I looked at those pans and cans, I felt broken-hearted. We would have only hamburgers for our Christmas dinner tomorrow, and gelatin. I stood in the cold little kitchen, and misery overwhelmed me. For the first time in my life, I doubted the existence of God and His mercy, and the coldness in my heart was colder than ice.

The doorbell rang, and Peggy ran fleetly to answer it, calling that it must be Santa Claus. Then I heard a man talking heartily to her and went to the door. He was a delivery man, and his arms were full of big parcels, and he was laughing at my child's frenzied joy and her dancing. This is a mistake, I said, but he read the name on the parcels, and they were for me. When he had gone I could only stare at the boxes. Peggy and I sat on the floor and opened them. A huge doll, three times the size of the one I had bought for her. Gloves. Candy. A beautiful leather purse. Incredible! I looked for the name of the sender. It was the teacher, the address simply California, where she had moved.

 

Our dinner that night was the most delicious I had ever eaten. I could only pray to myself, Thank You, Father. I forgot I had no money for the rent and only $15 in my purse and no job. My child and I ate and laughed together in happiness. Then we decorated the little tree and marveled at it. I put Peggy to bed and set up her gifts around the tree, and a sweet peace flooded me like a benediction. I had some hope again. I could even examine the sheaf of bills without cringing. Then I opened the two white envelopes. One contained a check for $30 from a company I had worked for briefly in the summer. It was, said a note, my Christmas bonus. My rent!

The other envelope was an offer of a permanent position with the government -- to begin in two days after Christmas. I sat with the letter in my hand and the check on the table before me, and I think that was the most joyful moment of my life up to that time.

The church bells began to ring. I hurriedly looked at my child, who was sleeping blissfully, and ran down to the street. Everywhere people were walking to church to celebrate the birth of the Saviour. People smiled at me and I smiled back. The storm had stopped, the sky was pure and glittering with stars.

The Lord is born! Sang the bells to the crystal night and the laughing darkness. Someone began to sing, Come, all ye faithful!

I joined in and sang with the strangers all about me.

I am not alone at all, I thought. I was never alone at all.

And that, of course, is the message of Christmas. We are never alone. Not when the night is darkest, the wind coldest, the world seemingly most indifferent. For this is still the time God chooses.





Home In our Hearts

I'm sorry for the white background. I thought I had it figured out last night, but it didn't work today


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“Christmas is a bridge. We need bridges as the river of time flows past. Today’s Christmas should mean creating happy hours for tomorrow and reliving those of yesterday." — Gladys Taber

 

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The best-selling Christmas song of all time is Bing Crosby’s White Christmas, (according to the Guiness Book of World Records.)  It is also the bestselling single of  any genre of all time.    The bestselling Christmas album is Elvis Presley’s first Christmas album “Elvis Christmas.”  This is a video clip from the movie White Christmas 1950.

Bing Crosby - White Christmas (1950).avi - YouTube

I'm dreaming of a white Christmas

Just like the ones I used to know

Where the treetops glisten

And children listen

To hear sleigh bells in the snow

I'm dreaming of a white Christmas

With every Christmas card I write

May your days be merry and bright

And may all your Christmases be white

I'm dreaming of a white Christmas

Just like the ones I used to know

Where the treetops glisten

And children listen

To hear sleigh bells in the snow

I'm dreaming of a white Christmas

With every Christmas card I write

May your days be merry and bright

And may all your Christmases be white


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Christmas Prayer

Robert Louis Stevenson

Loving Father, help us to remember the birth of Jesus, that we may share in the song of angels, the gladness of shepherds, and the worship of the wise men.

Close the door of hate and open the door of love all over the world.

Let kindness come with every gift and good desires with every greeting.

Deliver us from the evil by the blessing which Christ brings and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.

May the Christmas morning make us happy to be Thy children, and the Christmas evening brings us to our beds with grateful thoughts, forgiving and forgiven, for Jesus’ sake Amen!


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Last night, I sat down to relax, clicked on a streaming site and put “Christmas movies” in the search box.  To my surprise, there was “Santa Claus Conquers The Martians”.   I was about 9 years old when this movie came out.  “It’s a Wonderful Life” was the best movie ever, this one was not.  My dad took Dennis (my younger brother) and I to see it in 1964.  He grumbled all the way home about the complete and total waste of time and money that movie was.  The only redeeming point in the movie was that it contained the first screen appearance of Mrs. Claus.  The movie faded into obscurity until it obtained cult status in 1990.  At that time, it was determined that it was so bad that it was good.  It has been consistently rated as one of the 100 worst movies ever made.  It’s totally harmless, it's just low budget and dumb.  If you want to watch a movie which is a real groaner that will make you shake your head and grimace, this is the one for you.


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Taco Soup

1 lb ground beef (I use ground turkey)

1 onion, diced

16 oz. can pinto beans

14 oz can diced tomatoes

8 oz can tomato sauce

4 oz. diced chilis (I use the mild, but you can use hot.  Make it as spicy as you want)

1 can beef broth (I use chicken broth)

¾ cup frozen corn

⅓ cup diced green pepper 

1 package taco seasoning

Season as you’d like

Brown ground beef, green pepper and onion in large soup pot.  Drain fat.  Add remaining ingredients, stir well and simmer for 30 minutes.  It can also be made in a crock pot.


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Luke 2: 1, 3-6

1 And it came to pass in those days, that there went out a decree from Caesar Augustus that all the world should be taxed.

3 And all went to be taxed, every one into his own city.

4 And Joseph also went up from Galilee, out of the city of Nazareth, into Judaea, unto the city of David, which is called Bethlehem; (because he was of the house and lineage of David:

5 To be taxed with Mary his espoused wife, being great with child.

6 And so it was, that, while they were there, the days were accomplished that she should be delivered.

Luke shared the circumstances surrounding Christ's birth.  Jesus came as a baby, a precious gift from God.  It is so easy to lose Him in the hustle and bustle of December craziness.  Find a way to remember Him in your homes, with your families.  Show gratitude for that gift.  Our granddaughter Adrianne is in college this year.  It’s unbelievable how quickly she has grown up.  I thought about her and Christmas and nativities,and asked her if I could get her one for her room.  She said “yes”.  We gave it to her over Thanksgiving.  My mind wandered back to the first nativity I gave her.  She was about 5 years old.  We have many nativities in our home, and some are breakable.  That year, I put some within reach of the kids.  I was concerned about the possibility of breakage, but I wanted Adri and Brigham to interact with them.  I read a hint online about making a “1 finger rule” and thought that was a great idea.  The kids could touch any nativity they wanted to, any of them.  There was just one rule.  They just had to touch it with one finger, to keep it safe.  We gave Adri a simple, non-breakable nativity for Christmas.  She played with it,and told the nativity story in her own words over and over again. I walked into the room and saw a piece tipped over on the floor.  I reached down to pick it up, and Adri said, “One finger, Grandma.”  She cherished her nativity.  She protected it and kept it safe. ~~ Marilee

 I have several fun nativity projects for children on my pinterest page.  They are in the crafts for kids section.  They’re all Marilee approved.  The following story is a great one about the impact a nativity can have.  I do not know the author.  The story appears on numerous Christmas sites.

For Always

In 1994, two Americans answered an invitation from the Russian Department of Education to teach morals and ethics (based on biblical principles) in the public schools.  They were invited to teach at prisons, businesses, the fire and police departments and a large orphanage.  About 100 boys and girls who had been abandoned, abused and left in the care of a government-run program were in the orphanage.  They related the following story in their own words.

It was nearing the holiday season, 1994, time for orphans to hear, for the first time, the traditional story of Christmas.  We told them about Mary and Joseph arriving in Bethlehem.  Finding no room in the inn, the couple went to a stable, where the baby Jesus was born and placed in a manger.  Throughout the story, the children and orphanage staff sat in amazement as they listened.  Some sat on the edges  of their stools, trying to grasp every word.  Completing the story, we gave the children three small pieces of cardboard to make a crude manger.  Each child was given a small paper square, cut from yellow napkins I had brought with me.  No colored paper was available in the city.  Following instructions, the children tore the paper and carefully laid strips in the manger for straw.  Small squares of flannel, cut from a worn-out nightgown an American lady was throwing away as she left Russia, were used for the baby’s blanket.  A doll-like baby was cut from tan felt we brought from the United States.  The orphans were busy assembling their manger as I walked among them to see if they needed any help.  All went well until I got to one table where little Misha sat–he looked to be about 6 years old and had finished his project.  As I looked at the little boy’s manger, I was startled to see not one, but two babies in the manger.  Quickly, I called for the translator to ask the lad why there were two babies in the manger.  Crossing his arms in front of him and looking at his completed manger scene, the child began to repeat the story very seriously.  For such a young boy, who had only heard the Christmas story once, he related the happenings accurately–until he came to the part where Mary put the baby in the manger.  Then Misha started to ad lib.  He made up his own ending to the story as he said, “And when Mary laid the baby in the manger, Jesus looked at me and asked me if I had a place to stay.  I told him I have no mamma and I have no papa, so I don't have any place to stay.  Then Jesus told me I could stay with him.  But I told him I couldn’t because I didn’t have a gift to give him like everybody else did.  But I wanted to stay with Jesus so much, so I thought about what I had that maybe I could use for a gift.  So I asked Jesus, “If I keep you warm, will that be a good enough gift?” And Jesus told me, “If you keep me warm, that will be the best gift anybody ever gave me.”  So I got into the manger, and then Jesus looked at me and told me I could stay with him–for “always.”

As little Misha finished his story, his eyes brimmed full of tears that splashed down his little cheeks.  Putting his hand over his face, his head dropped to the table and his shoulders shook as he sobbed and sobbed.  The little orphan had found someone who would never abandon not abuse him, someone who would stay with him – FOR ALWAYS.

This December, let us give Christ the gift of a home in our hearts.

 

The Perfect Gift

 

"I truly believe that if we keep telling the Christmas story, singing the Christmas songs, and living the Christmas spirit, we can bring joy and happiness and peace to this world." — Norman Vincent Peale

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Christmas is a time when we find our way back home, whether in person or in our hearts. It’s a time to celebrate the birth of Jesus, relive childhood memories, continue cherished traditions, and share hospitality and good will with others. It is a privilege for me to share my love of Jesus Christ with you. He is our Savior, our Redeemer, the Hope of our world. This year’s blogs will contain links and lyrics to some of my favorite Christmas songs as well as recipes (My daughter wants soup recipes because it was cold when I asked her what kind of recipes to put in), stories, poems, decorating tips and other fun stuff. I hope you will enjoy them ~~ Marilee

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I love music. I love “Christmas” music and yes, I listen to it all year. It never gets old. Although I admit there are only so many times you can listen to squeaky little animal voices (sorry, Alvin). That’s not the case for all people. Some people prefer their Christmas music to play solely on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. Some only like carols, some only like Country Christmas, some instrumental, some like jazz. Because our taste in music is so diverse, I try to bring in many different genres. This year there will be traditional carols, instrumentals, jazz, rock and roll, and country to name a few. I hope each of you can find something you like. Enjoy the links-most of them have great videos which go along with the music. The youtube song links often include advertisements. I do not endorse any of the products.


If I Were There

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wqLMuNTLLyA

If I were there on that silent night,

Would I hear angels sing praises in the sky?

If I were there, would I go with haste

With humble shepherds to seek His holy place?


If I were there, I’d find the manger

And bow before the tiny Savior.

I’d sense the peace that filled the air

If I were there, if I were there.


If I were there, would I see the star

Or join with wisemen who journeyed from afar?

If I were there, would I gladly bring

My finest treasure to lay before my King?


If I were there, I’d find the manger

And bow before the tiny Savior.

I’d sense the peace that filled the air

If I were there, if I were there.


I was not here, but inside I know

That precious baby who came so long ago

Was Jesus Christ, Lord of heav’n and earth;

I sing his praises as I celebrate His birth.


If I were there, I’d find the manger

And bow before the tiny Savior.

I’d sense the peace that filled the air

If I were there, if I were there.

If I were there.

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Born in Idaho, I was weaned on Potato Soup.

Potato Soup

1 cup chopped onions

1 cup finely chopped celery

2 cups finely diced potatoes

1 can chicken broth

12 ounces bacon, finely chopped and fried

¾ cup butter (not margarine)

¾ cup flour

1 T vinegar

1 quart half and half

1 ½ t. Salt

1 t. Pepper

Put the prepared vegetables in a saucepan. Add chicken broth plus enough water to barely cover the vegetables. Simmer, covered over medium heat till barely tender. In the meantime, melt butter in another medium saucepan. Add flour. Blend and cook, stirring constantly until the flour is thoroughly incorporated; add the cream. Cook and stir with wire whip, until smooth and thick. Stir constantly! Add undrained vegetables, bacon and vinegar. Heat through, but do not boil again.

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I fell asleep Sunday afternoon, and woke to find Dean watching “It’s a Wonderful Life.” It made me smile. That is the best Christmas movie EVER! George Bailey felt like his life was a total failure. Nothing turned out like he planned or thought that he wanted. Facing disaster, he went to a bridge to throw himself off, he rescued Clarence, his guardian angel, instead. Clarence showe him what life would like if he was never born. The world became a dark, dismal place. My favorite line in the movie is "A toast to my big brother George: the richest man in town."  George was rich in everything that mattered.  Other great quotes are:  “Look daddy, teacher says, every time a bell rings an angel gets his wings,” “Remember, no man is a failure who has friends.” and “Look, we’re still in business! We’ve still got two bucks left!”

Great  movie, great quotes

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Deciding on a theme for this year's blog has been challenging. Earlier this week, I remembered a story I heard as a child. I’ll try to recreate it for you. The story was about a woman walking across the African Serengeti. She was heavy with child, and lovingly caressed her belly as she walked, dreaming of her child’s future, seeking a gift for her precious one.

In the distance, she saw a spirit approach her. As it neared, the spirit said, “Touch ME and your child will be wealthy. It will never know hunger, or need.” The woman walked on.

The next spirit she saw said, “Touch ME and your child will be famous. Everyone will know its name.” Again she walked on.

The third spirit said “Touch ME. Your child will be beautiful. It will be praised and adored by all.” Once more, she walked on, and continued walking as she was offered “power”, “glory” and “security” for her child..

Tired, she trudged on, seeking the best gift for her child. Approached by another spirit, this one said, “Touch ME and your child will not have great wealth, or beauty or power. Your child will go to bed hungry at times - homeless, but he will always see the light and follow it. He will hear a voice call him and will seek after the voice and the vision time and time again. Beyond the horizon, there will always be a new light.

But what gift will my child receive?”

Reaching down and picking up a handful of sand, the spirit slowly let the sand slip through its fingers, glittering in the light. “Your child will see beauty in everything. When he looks around, he will always see the beauty in this world and move forward with hope.”

And the woman cried out, “Touch me! Touch ME!”

She was seeking the best gift she could find for her child. Christmas is about gifts, and this year, my blog will be about the gifts we have received from our Savior as well as the ones we offer to Christ and each other.

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Jesus Is The Gift

By Holly Gerth


Jesus Is The Gift

That perfectly fits every heart,

And it is with his love that all celebration starts.


We rejoice in Him as we remember his birth

And thank God for sending His only son to earth.


His life led from a manger to a cross on a hill

Where He faithfully followed His Father’s perfect will.


He freely laid down everything so we could live

And there is no greater treasure anyone could give.


Like a scarlet ribbon, His love wrapped around the cross

And He offered it to us at the greatest cost.


So when we give from the heart, we remember what He’s done

And honor the perfect gift–God’s one and only son.


1 John 4: 14-19   14 And we have seen and do testify that the Father sent the Son to be the Saviour of the world.
15 Whosoever shall confess that Jesus is the Son of God, God dwelleth in him, and he in God.
16 And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him.
17 Herein is our love made perfect, that we may have boldness in the day of judgment: because as he is, so are we in this world.
18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.

19 We love him, because he first loved us. 



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Celtic Woman 'Away in a Manger' - YouTube

Away in a manger,
no crib for His bed,
The little Lord Jesus
lay down his sweet head.
The stars in the bright sky
looked down where He lay
The little Lord Jesus,
asleep on the hays.



The cattle are lowing,
the Baby awakes,
But little Lord Jesus,
no crying He makes;
I love Thee, Lord Jesus,
look down from the sky
And stay by my side
Until morning is nigh.

Be near me, Lord Jesus,
I ask Thee to stay,
Close by me forever,
and love me, I pray!
Bless all the dear children
in Thy tender care
And lead us to heaven,
to Live with Thee there.



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Thank you for giving me the privilege of sharing my love of Christmas and of our Savior, Jesus Christ with you.  Today is Christmas Eve.  One of the most important lessons I've learned  this Christmas is that I am just a child with a lot to learn, and a lot of growing to do.  Like a child, I will follow  Him, and take joy in the journey.  We have started new traditions and will continue to find new ways to make our Love of Christ fill every day of our lives.  Merry Christmas. Until next year, Marilee 





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Christmas Eve Behind Bars

By Nanci McGraw

Have you ever had an experience that stopped time? A time when you were focused on the moment and you felt a tingling burst of excitement, hope, love and joy?

Christmas Eve has always provided me with magical moments but they tend to merge, blending into a swirl of memories. These memories of family, love, music, and traditions, combine with a renewed faith and Christian promise. There is, however, one special Christmas Eve that will remain in my mind and heart forever.

A church representative asked us if our family would like to present a musical program for the military prison at Miramar Air Station in San Diego on Christmas Eve. We consented and suddenly the smallest decisions seemed crucially important. What to wear? What to play? We packed our songbooks and instruments, some balloons to twist and a Bible.

We arrived at the prison on December 24, and quietly unloaded our instruments. As we filed in, a lone uniformed officer greeted us. The main doors clanked shut behind us. The officer conducted a careful inspection of our musical instruments, looking inside the cases, including the music stands. He gave us a nod and told us to walk through the metal detectors. After clearing the security door, we were led through a dimly-lit gymnasium and then into a small classroom that served as the chapel.

Along the walls were large, built-in bookshelves that contained assorted books and hymnals from varied religions. A modest electronic organ and a bench were nearby. At the far end of the room was a six-foot table that we staked out for the refreshments. We set up folding chairs in gentle curves. The room was simple but serviceable.

A voice from the PA system announced that the musical program was about to begin. About seven to ten men, each dressed in gray shirts and pants, filed in. They appeared to be in their twenties and thirties - not much older than my sons. We smiled and introduced ourselves as they entered. There were no armed escorts, chains, handcuffs or numbers on their uniforms.

As they entered, we were busy blowing up red, white and green balloons and twisting them together into creative shapes. We made festive balloon hats as a way to loosen them up. The icebreaker worked - before long, they were smiling and displaying their multicolored hats.

We passed out song sheets, introduced our family and opened with the song, "O Come All Ye Faithful." I fought to suppress tears that threatened to cloud my eyes, while I played the organ. The word "faithful" suddenly touched me in an extraordinary way. The chaplain then asked one of the men to offer an opening prayer, which was a brief but moving expression of gratitude for the evening celebration.

We sang religious carols and traditional Christmas songs, along with Bible readings. Toward the end of the evening we sang, "We Wish You a Merry Christmas." Together we munched on cookies and chatted. With little urging, the men ate all the cookies - they said they weren't permitted to take food back to their cells.

On Christmas Eve, most of us eat a special dinner, wrap presents, and attend religious services. Over the years we've done all that, but that Christmas Eve in San Diego will always be different.

I believe that each of us lives in a prison of our own making. We can allow ourselves to become prisoners of our own hearts and emotions - restrained by the chains of unfulfilled goals and dreams that have dissolved. Four walls alone does not a prison make; it can be a place, a condition of life, or even a holding pattern - a place where we merely exist.

We held a party in prison. It was a celebration, a reaching out. Our lives touched; we exchanged hopes, spent time together, and made music. Our family never discussed that Christmas Eve behind bars. Perhaps it was too personal. We quietly processed it within our own souls. It was a compelling experience. Did we make a positive difference? Perhaps. Were the inmates somehow changed? Maybe. It really didn't matter because we were!

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May our hearts find Him wherever we are ~~ Marilee




timeless and eternal

 




"Like God, Christmas is timeless and eternal, from everlasting to everlasting. It is something even more than what happened that night in starlit little Bethlehem; it has been behind the stars forever. There was Christmas in the heart of God before the world was formed."

~ Roy Rogers






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The Hope of Christmas

Matthew West - The Hope of Christmas (Official Music Video) - YouTube


Take me back to eight years old
The little church on a dead end road
With a candle flicker in one hand
And dad's hand in the other
Take me back to silent night
My heart was full and the world was right
'Cause right now the world looks nothin' like
Those innocent Decembers

These days peace on Earth is hard to find
And I need you to remind me one more time

You're still the hope of Christmas
You're still the light when the world looks dark
You're still the hope of Christmas
And You're still the hope of my heart

Watch the snowflakes fallin' down
Like a blanket on this town
For a moment we can hardly see
The pain this year has brought us
May the sick find healing's touch
May hatred's fight be one with love
And may every heart make room for You
The one who came to save us

'Cause You're still the hope of Christmas
You're still the light when the world looks dark
You're still the hope of Christmas
And You're still the hope of my heart

You're the hope of Christmas

I bowed my head to pray tonight
Felt my little girl by my side
She slipped her tiny hand in mine
And we both talked to You
And it took me back to 8 years old
My daddy's hand and a story told
About Heaven's love and the manger lo
And a promise that's still true

You're still the hope of Christmas
You're still the light when the world looks dark
You're still the hope of Christmas
And You're still the hope of my heart

You're still the hope of Christmas
You're still the light when the world looks dark
You're still the hope of Christmas
You're still the hope of my heart



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God's Kids

One cold winter day, a ragged little urchin stood on a street corner of a large city selling newspapers. His feet were bare and he had no coat. As he stood there shivering, a woman walking past noticed the child. She approached hi and said, "Come with me dear. I want to buy you a coat and some shoes."
A smile lighted his cold little face as he took her hand. She led him to a large warm department store, where she had him completely outfitted from head to toe with heavy winter clothing.
The boy was putting on the last of his new clothing as the woman paid the bill and quietly slipped out of the door. When he finished dressing he looked for the lady to tell her thanks but he was told by the clerk that she was gone.
He ran from the store frantically looking up and down the street. He must find the lady to thank her. At last! There she was walking down the street. He ran quickly to her, took her hand and said, "Lady why did you go? I wanted to thank you."
"You're welcome dear," she smiled.
The little boy then looked up into her face and said solemnly, 'Lady, who are you? Are you God's wife?" "No," she softly replied, I'm just one of His children. "Oh, I knew it!" he smiled with tears in his eyes. "I just knew you were some relation!"



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Fudge Cookies

6 oz chocolate chips

2 T butter

1 can sweetened condensed milk

1 c. flour

1 t. vanilla

On low heat, melt butter and chocolate chips. Add remaining ingredients, stir well. Remove from heat and let cool. Drop by teaspoonful onto greased cookie sheet. Bake at 325 degrees for 10-12 minutes.



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As I have watched 2 of our grandsons the past 2 days, I’ve thought a lot about what memories I want to leave them with, what traditions we establish. This afternoon I noticed the older of the boys had the fisher Price nativity on the floor (which is fine, they know that is for them to play with) the angel was on the manger, everything else was spread all over and inside the stable was as many toy cars and trucks as he could fit in it. He told me that baby Jesus loves trucks, and he wanted Jesus to be happy. I thought to myself, well here is a new tradition for this year: figuring out what we can do to make Jesus happy. ~~ Marilee




Christmas Love (sweet story)

available online from multiple sources

Heart Touchers - Christmas Love by Candy Chand
Christmas Love by Candy Chand - Beliefnet

Christmas Story: CHRIST WAS LOVE | Motivational Stories (academictips.org)


"Each December, I vowed to make Christmas a calm and peaceful experience. But once again, despite my plans, chaos prevailed. I had cut back on nonessential obligations -- extensive card writing, endless baking, decorating, and yes, even the all American pastime, overspending. Yet, still, I found myself exhausted, unable to appreciate the precious family moments, and, of course, the true meaning of Christmas.

My son, Nicholas, was in kindergarten that year. It was an exciting season for a six year old filled with hopes, dreams and laughter. For weeks, he'd been memorizing songs for his school's "Winter Pageant." I didn't have the heart to tell him I'd be working the night of the production.

Unwilling to miss his shining moment, I spoke with his teacher. She assured me there'd be a dress-rehearsal the morning of the presentation. All parents unable to attend that evening were welcome to come then. Fortunately, Nicholas seemed happy with the compromise.

So, just as I promised, on the morning of the dress rehearsal, I filed in 10 minutes early, found a spot on the cafeteria floor and sat down. Around the room, I saw several other parents quietly scampering to their seats. As I waited, the students were led into the room. Each class, accompanied by their teacher, sat cross-legged on the floor. Then, each group, one by one, rose to perform their song.

Because the public school system had long stopped referring to the holiday as "Christmas," I didn't expect anything other than fun, commercial entertainment -- songs of reindeer, Santa Claus, snowflakes and good cheer. The melodies were fun, cute and lighthearted, but nowhere to be found was even the hint of an innocent babe, a manger, or Christ’s sacred gift of hope and joy. So, when my son's class rose to sing, "Christmas Love", I was slightly taken aback by its bold title.

Nicholas was aglow, as were all of his classmates, adorned in fuzzy mittens, red sweaters and bright snowcaps upon their heads. Those in the front row -- center stage -- held up large letters, one by one, to spell out the title of the song. As the class would sing "C is for Christmas," a child would hold up the letter C. Then, "H is for Happy," and on and on, until each child holding up his portion had presented the complete message, "Christmas Love."

The performance was going smoothly, until suddenly, we noticed her -- a small, quiet girl in the front row who was holding the letter "M" upside down. She was entirely unaware, that reversed, her letter "M" appeared as a "W." Fidgeting from side to side, she soon moved entirely away from her mark.

The audience of 1st through 6th graders snickered at the little one's mistake. But in her innocence, she had no idea they were laughing at her as she stood tall, proudly holding her "W".

One can only imagine the difficulty in calming an audience of young, giggling students. Although many teachers tried to shush the children, the laughter continued until the last letter was raised, and we all saw it together. A hush came over the audience and eyes began to widen.

In that instant, we understood -- the reason we were there, why we celebrated the holiday in the first place, why even in the chaos there was a purpose for our festivities. For when the last letter was held high, the message read loud and clear:

CHRIST WAS LOVE

And, I believe, He still is.~ Candy Chand ~ a true story